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12 Backyard Summer Activities Kids Will Love (Easy & Screen‑Free Fun)

There’s something magical about summer days when the kids are home, the sun is shining, and the backyard becomes the easiest place to play. But let’s be honest — some days you just cannot make another trip to the store for supplies, snacks, or “one more thing” the kids swear they need.

The good news? Your backyard is already full of fun waiting to happen. With a little creativity (and zero errands), you can turn an ordinary afternoon into a memory‑making summer day.

Here are my favorite backyard summer activities that use what you already have at home — no car seats, no checkout lines, no stress.

1. Water Bucket Relay

Kids + water = instant entertainment.

What you need:

  • Two buckets
  • One cup, sponge, or small container

Fill one bucket with water and leave the other empty. Kids race back and forth transferring water using the cup or sponge. It’s chaotic, hilarious, and guaranteed to cool everyone off.

2. DIY Obstacle Course

Use whatever you have lying around — hula hoops, pool noodles, chairs, jump ropes, sidewalk chalk.

Ideas to include:

  • Crawl under a chair
  • Hop through chalk circles
  • Zig‑zag around toys
  • Jump over a pool noodle
  • Balance on a line of sticks

Time them and watch the competitive spirit come alive.

3. Backyard Scavenger Hunt

A classic that never gets old.

Ideas to find:

  • Something round
  • Something soft
  • Something yellow
  • A leaf bigger than your hand
  • A stick shaped like a letter

You can tailor it to any age — toddlers love pictures, big kids love challenges.

4. Sponge Toss (No Balloons Needed)

Skip the water balloons and use sponges instead.

How to play: Soak sponges in water and toss them at a target — a bucket, a chalk circle, or even a willing parent. They’re reusable, mess‑free, and surprisingly fun.

5. Nature Art Station

Let the kids create with what they find.

What to gather:

  • Leaves
  • Sticks
  • Rocks
  • Flowers
  • Grass

Give them paper, glue, or just the ground as their canvas. They’ll make faces, animals, patterns — and stay busy way longer than you expect.

6. Backyard Camping (No Tent Required)

Turn your yard into a mini campsite.

Ideas to include:

  • Lay out blankets
  • Bring out pillows and stuffed animals
  • Tell stories
  • Make “camp snacks” from whatever you have
  • Stargaze when the sun goes down

It feels like an adventure without ever leaving home.

7. DIY Car Wash — For Bikes & Scooters

Kids love washing anything.

What you need:

  • Bucket of soapy water
  • Sponge
  • Hose
  • Towels

Let them wash their bikes, scooters, or toy cars. They’ll take it very seriously… and probably wash the fence too.

8. Shadow Drawing

A quiet, creative activity for hot afternoons.

What you need:

  • Paper
  • Pencil or marker
  • Toys or objects

Set toys in the sun so they cast a shadow on the paper. Kids trace the outline and then color it in. It’s simple and surprisingly magical.

9. Backyard Dance Party

Turn up the music and let the kids go wild.

Add fun challenges like:

  • Freeze dance
  • Copy‑my‑move
  • Dance‑off
  • Slow‑motion round

Bonus: it burns off energy fast.

10. Ice Cube Treasure Hunt

Freeze small toys or beads in ice cubes.

How to play: Dump them in a bin outside and let kids “rescue” the treasures using water, spoons, or their hands. It’s sensory, cool, and perfect for hot days.

11. Chalk Games (More Than Just Drawing)

Try:

  • Chalk twister
  • Hopscotch
  • Maze paths
  • “Roads” for bikes and scooters
  • Giant board games like tic‑tac‑toe

Chalk turns your driveway into a whole world.

12. Cloud Watching + Snack Picnic

Sometimes the simplest moments are the sweetest.

Lay out a blanket, grab whatever snacks you have, and look for shapes in the clouds. It’s calm, cozy, and a perfect reset for everyone.

Final Thoughts

You don’t need a Target run or a trunk full of supplies to make summer magical. Your backyard, a little imagination, and whatever you already have at home are more than enough to create fun, connection, and memories your kids will talk about for years.

For even more screen‑free summer fun, try my DIY Summer Boredom Jar — a simple activity jar filled with creative ideas kids can do all season long.

With coffee in one hand and summer memories in the other,

💛Bethany

5 Quick Fruit‑Inspired DIYs to Refresh Your Summer Décor

Fruit‑themed décor is everywhere right now — from boutique home stores to Pinterest feeds bursting with lemons, cherries, and watermelon everything. And honestly, I couldn’t resist jumping in. If the world is going fruity, then I’m bringing my own fresh‑picked DIY twist to the trend.

These five projects are bright, cheerful, budget‑friendly, and perfect for adding a little sunshine to your home. Even better? Most of the supplies came straight from Dollar Tree and Hobby Lobby, making these crafts as affordable as they are adorable.

Let’s dive into the sweetness.

1. Lemon Wreath

Nothing says “summer is here” like a pop of lemon décor on your front door.

Supplies:

  • Grapevine wreath form
  • Faux lemons
  • Greenery and lemon‑themed picks
  • Ribbon or bow
  • Hot glue and floral wire
  • Lemon themed sign

How to Make It:

  1. Start by fluffing and arranging your greenery at the bottom of the wreath form.
  2. Place the sign at the bottom of the wreath.
  3. Add your faux lemons, spacing them evenly for a balanced look.
  4. Secure everything with hot glue and/or floral wire.
  5. Finish with a bow — yellow, gingham, or whatever fits your vibe.

This wreath looks boutique‑level but costs a fraction of the price.

2. Lemon Riser Using a Cutting Board

This lemon cutting board was meant for a gift, but when it didn’t get used, I knew it needed a new purpose. Turning it into a riser was the perfect way to bring a little extra sunshine into my space.

Supplies:

  • Lemon‑shaped cutting board (Hobby Lobby)
  • Wooden beads or wooden peg feet (Dollar Tree)
  • Hot glue or wood glue

How to Make It:

  1. Flip your cutting board over and decide where you want your riser legs.
  2. Glue on wooden beads or pegs — four corners or three in a triangle pattern both work great.
  3. Let dry completely before styling.

Instant charm with minimal effort.

3. “Hello Sunshine” Lemon Wood Block

A cheerful little shelf sitter that brightens any space.

Supplies:

  • Wood block
  • Lemon wood shape cutout or any other lemon accent
  • Paint
  • Ribbon and twine
  • Glue

How to Make It:

  1. Paint your block.
  2. Glue the lemon accent
  3. Adhere the ribbon and twine.
  4. Add vinyl, sticker, or wood letters to spell Hello Sunshine.

Simple, sweet, and perfect for summer.

4. Watermelon Hanging Sign — “Life Is Sweet”

This one is playful, bold, and perfect for porches, patios, or kids’ spaces.

Supplies:

  • Hanging sign or wood shape
  • Paint
  • Fabric
  • Vinyl, stickers, or wood letters for “Life Is Sweet”
  • Ribbon
  • Watermelon accent ( I used a beaded garland from the Dollar Tree)
  • Optional accents like flowers
  • Mod Podge

How to Make It:

  1. Paint your sign.
  2. Attach the fabric to the bottom half using mod podge.
  3. Glue or staple a ribbon accent where the fabric and wood meet in the middle to cover up the fabric edge.
  4. Add your lettering once the paint is dry.
  5. Add watermelon and flower accents.
  6. Tie on a ribbon or twine with beads for hanging.

It’s bright, happy, and guaranteed to make people smile.

5. Cherry Wall Décor

This one looks totally boutique‑bought, but it only cost a few dollars to make. It was actually inspired by my daughter — she loves anything with a cherry print. The moment I spotted the cherry wood cutout at Dollar Tree, I knew I had to turn it into something special just for her.

Supplies:

  • Wood plaque
  • Decorative napkin for the background
  • Cherry wood cutout
  • Mod Podge
  • Paint (optional)

How to Make It:

  1. Paint the wood plaque.
  2. Apply Mod Podge to the plaque and lay your napkin on top for a patterned background.
  3. Paint your cherry cutout or leave it natural for a rustic look.
  4. Glue the cherry piece onto the center of the plaque.

It’s the perfect mix of cute and classy.

Final Thoughts

Fruit‑themed décor is such a fun way to bring color and personality into your home — and these DIYs prove you don’t need a big budget to create something beautiful. Whether you’re team lemon, cherry, or watermelon, these projects add a fresh, summery touch to any space.

As always, if you want to see these being made, follow me on TikTok @ohwait.imamom

With coffee in one hand and sunshine‑sweet lemons in the other,

💛Bethany

Easy Patriotic Food Ideas for the 4th of July

There’s something magical about summertime food — the berries are sweeter, the sunlight hits differently, and suddenly everything tastes better when it’s served a wooden board with a gingham napkin nearby. And nothing captures that summer magic quite like a 4th of July cookout. Kids running around with sparklers, burgers sizzling on the grill, and a table full of red, white, and blue food that makes everyone smile. If you’re hosting this year, here are easy, crowd‑pleasing patriotic food ideas that look festive without requiring a culinary degree or a grocery cart full of specialty ingredients.

These are simple, colorful, and perfect for backyard gatherings, potlucks, or block parties.

❤️ Red Foods

Red foods bring the bold, bright pop that makes a patriotic table instantly fun.

  • Strawberries
  • Watermelon slices or stars (use a cookie cutter!)
  • Raspberries
  • Cherry tomatoes
  • Red peppers with ranch
  • Red licorice
  • Salsa
  • Pepperoni or salami slices for snack boards
  • Takis (my tween told me to include these)

Styling Tip: Keep red foods grouped together for maximum impact — it makes the table look intentional and vibrant.

🤍 White Foods

White foods help balance the bold colors and keep everything looking clean and classic.

  • Mozzarella pearls
  • White cheddar cubes
  • Cauliflower florets
  • Pita chips
  • Popcorn
  • Vanilla yogurt or whipped cream
  • Marshmallows
  • Angel food cake cubes
  • Yogurt covered pretzels or raisins

Styling Tip: Use white bowls or trays to anchor the table and give the patriotic colors a clean backdrop.

💙 Blue Foods

Blue is the trickiest color, but these options make it easy.

  • Blueberries
  • Blackberries
  • Blue corn tortilla chips
  • Blueberry muffins
  • Jell-O (Blue)
  • Blue cheese crumbles
  • Blueberry goat cheese log
  • Blue sports drinks for the kids

Styling Tip: Scatter blueberries around platters or use them to fill small gaps — they make everything look more festive.

Easy Patriotic Recipes for Your Cookout

1. Red, White & Blue Fruit Skewers

Alternate strawberries, blueberries, and marshmallows on wooden skewers. Fast, cute, and kid‑approved.

2. Firecracker Berry Salad

A mix of watermelon, strawberries, blueberries, and feta. Drizzle with honey and lime for a refreshing side.

3. Patriotic Snack Board

Fill a large board with red foods on one side, white in the middle, and blue on the other. Add dips, crackers, and a few mini flags for flair.

4. 4th of July Trifle

Layer angel food cake, whipped cream, strawberries, and blueberries in a clear dish. Looks fancy, takes 10 minutes.

5. Red, White & Blue Popsicles

Blend strawberries, then vanilla yogurt, then blueberries — freeze in layers. Perfect for hot July afternoons.

Styling Ideas to Make Your Food Look Patriotic

1. Use a Red, White & Blue Table Runner

Even a simple striped runner instantly ties everything together.

2. Add Mini Flags

Stick them into burgers, desserts, or fruit bowls for an easy festive touch.

3. Use Clear Dishes

Clear bowls and trays let the colors shine without competing with them.

4. Create Color Zones

Group red foods together, white foods together, and blue foods together. It photographs beautifully and feels intentional.

5. Add Star Shapes

Use star cookie cutters for watermelon, cheese slices, brownies, or Rice Krispie treats.

6. Mix Sweet + Savory

A patriotic table looks best when there’s variety — fruit, chips, dips, desserts, and drinks.

🎆 Final Thoughts

Red, white, and blue food doesn’t have to be complicated — it just needs color, freshness, and a few fun touches. Whether you’re hosting a big backyard bash or keeping it simple with family, these ideas make your 4th of July table festive, delicious, and totally Instagram‑ready.

With coffee in one hand and a sparkler in the other,

💛Bethany

If you’re looking for patriotic crafts to go with your 4th of July menu, head over to my blog post with a full round‑up of red, white, and blue DIYs.

Your New Summer Lifesaver: The DIY Boredom Jar

Because if one more child says “there’s nothing to do,” I might put myself in time‑out.

Summer is magical… until it’s 10:07 AM on Day One and someone dramatically collapses onto the couch claiming they’re bored. Again. Even though they have toys, crafts, snacks, a backyard, a bike, water toys, and a pet they could be bothering.

Enter: the DIY Summer Boredom Jar — your new best friend, your secret weapon, your “go pick something from the jar” moment of peace.

This simple little jar turns boredom into independence, creativity, and maybe even a few minutes of quiet for you. Maybe.

Why Every Mom Needs a Boredom Jar

Kids thrive with structure… even in summer, when structure is basically a suggestion.

A boredom jar:

  • Cuts down on whining
  • Encourages creativity
  • Gives kids choices
  • Keeps summer fun without you being the cruise director
  • Helps kids learn to entertain themselves (a life skill we ALL want them to have)

Plus, it’s cute, easy, and takes less than 10 minutes to make.

What You Need

Nothing fancy — you probably already have everything:

  • A jar, cup, bucket, or leftover candle container
  • Popsicle sticks or paper strips
  • Markers
  • Optional: ribbon, stickers, or washi tape to make it cute

If you’re feeling extra, let the kids decorate it. If you’re not, slap a label on it and call it a day.

How to Make Your Summer Boredom Jar

This is the easiest DIY you’ll do all season.

  1. Write activities on popsicle sticks or paper strips
  2. Mix a variety — quick tasks, creative ideas, outdoor fun, quiet time options
  3. Fold or color‑code if you want categories
  4. Fill the jar
  5. Place it somewhere visible (ours lives on the kitchen counter like a tiny beacon of hope)

Now when boredom strikes, the rule is simple: Pick a stick. Do the thing. No negotiations.

40 + Summer Boredom Busters to Add to Your Jar

A mix of fun, creative, silly, and mom‑approved ideas.

🌼 Quick & Easy

  • Draw with sidewalk chalk
  • Build a blanket fort
  • Make a card for someone
  • Play with bubbles
  • Do a puzzle
  • Read for 10 minutes
  • Make a paper airplane and test it

🍋 Creative Fun

  • Paint rocks
  • Make friendship bracelets
  • Create a comic strip
  • Build something with recyclables
  • Make a nature collage
  • Write a silly story
  • Create your own board game

🌊 Outdoor Adventures

  • Water balloon toss
  • Go on a nature scavenger hunt
  • Ride your bike
  • Wash the car
  • Make a backyard obstacle course
  • Cloud watching
  • Collect leaves or shells

🏖️ Quiet Time Activities

  • Listen to an audiobook
  • Color a page
  • Organize your bookshelf
  • Build with Legos
  • Do a word search
  • Try a new drawing tutorial
  • Write in a summer journal

🍉 Helpful “Mom Wins” Tasks

  • Water the plants
  • Wipe down the table
  • Match socks
  • Sweep the porch
  • Restock the snack basket
  • Help prep lunch
  • Clean out the art drawer

🌈 Just for Fun

  • Make a silly TikTok dance
  • Freeze toys in ice and rescue them
  • Create a treasure hunt
  • Make popsicles
  • Play a board game
  • Have a mini fashion show
  • Build a tower taller than you

How We Use It in Our House

When the boredom monster appears, I simply say: “Grab the jar.”

No arguing. No “but I don’t want to.” They pick a stick, and off they go.

Some days they do one activity. Some days they do five. Some days they pick “wash the car” and I feel like I’ve won the parenting lottery.

Want the Printable Version?

I’ve put together two options to make this boredom jar super easy for busy moms: a pre-filled list of boredom busters ready to print and cut out, and a blank version so you can jot down your own ideas that fit your family. I also designed a cute label you can attach right to your jar to pull the whole thing together.

With coffee in one hand and a jar that might just save my sanity in the other,

💛Bethany

If you’re looking for more ways to keep summer running smoothly, check out my Summer Chore Chart for Kids — a free printable that helps build simple routines.

Red, White & Blue DIYs: Easy Patriotic Crafts for Your Home

The 4th of July is always such a fun holiday to decorate for, but this year feels extra special as we celebrate 250 years of American independence. And if you love a good Dollar Tree stroll and a hot‑glue‑gun moment, this 4th of July craft round‑up is for you. I enjoy the classic red, white, and blue, but this year I tried to give most of my décor a softer, cottage‑core twist. These easy patriotic crafts are budget‑friendly, beginner‑friendly, and full of that cozy, cottage‑chic charm we all love.

And if you’re a visual crafter, you can watch all of these come together @ohwait.imamomperfect for quick inspiration while you sip your iced coffee.

1. Large Wood Flag Using Dollar Tree Hanging Signs

This oversized flag costs just a few dollars to make. I used the blank hanging wood signs from Dollar Tree, painted them red, white, and blue, and added white Dollar Tree stars to finish the look. It’s bold, classic, and perfect for your front porch or entryway.

2. Coquette‑Vibes Flag (Gingham + Lace + Florals)

If you love the soft, girly, coquette aesthetic, this one is for you. I layered gingham ribbon, lace ribbon, and a floral napkin for the blue section. Then I added a sweet bow and framed it in a matted frame. It’s patriotic with a cottage‑core twist — and honestly, adorable.

3. Distressed Uncle Sam Hat (Dollar Tree Wood)

For this hat, I used wood pieces from the Dollar Store, painted them in classic red, white, and blue, then glued them together to create a distressed, patriotic Uncle Sam–style hat. The worn finish gives it that charming, vintage Americana look that fits perfectly with my cottage‑core 4th of July décor.

4. Mason Jar Sign Makeover

I took a mason‑jar‑shaped sign from Dollar Tree and completely redesigned it using scrapbook paper and fabric. The mix of textures gives it a sweet, handmade look — perfect for a kitchen vignette or coffee bar display.

5. Cottage‑Chic Bells Using Terracotta Pots

These bells are one of my favorites! I used small terracotta pots from the dollar store, distressed them for a cottage‑chic finish, and hung a cute “1776” sign from Hobby Lobby. They’re whimsical, vintage‑inspired, and so fun for porch décor.

6. Fabric‑Covered Wood Stars

I grabbed wood stars from Dollar Tree and Mod Podged floral and gingham fabric onto the fronts. Then I glued them onto a distressed wood base for a layered, farmhouse‑style look. These are perfect for mantels, entryways, or shelves.

Final Thoughts

I hope this little collection of 4th of July DIYs inspires you to create something festive, fun, and uniquely you this season. Whether you’re team classic red‑white‑and‑blue or leaning into the softer cottage‑core twist like I did this year, there’s something so special about decorating for a holiday that celebrates 250 years of American independence.

Each of these projects is simple, affordable, and made with pieces you can grab on your next Dollar Tree stroll — proof that patriotic décor doesn’t have to be loud or expensive to be beautiful.

And if you want to see these crafts come together in real time, don’t forget you can watch all the videos on my TikTok or Instagram @ohwait.imamom. Sometimes seeing the process makes all the difference, especially when the hot glue gun has a mind of its own.

Here’s to a festive, creative, and cozy 4th of July.

With coffee in one hand and an American flag in the other,

💛Bethany

Keep the Fun, Get the Chores Done: Summer Chore Chart for Kids + Free Printable

Because summer should feel fun… not like a three‑month battle over who left their shoes in the doorway

Summer hits, school ends, and suddenly the house looks like a beach bag exploded in every room. Towels on chairs. Snack wrappers in places snack wrappers should never be. Cups multiplying like they’re auditioning for a magic show.

And while we love the slower mornings and the “Mom, can we go to the pool” energy… we also love a home that doesn’t require a search‑and‑rescue mission just to find the sunscreen.

Enter: the Easy Summer Chore Chart for Kids — a simple, flexible, mom‑sanity‑saving printable that keeps your home running without turning summer into a chore bootcamp.

Why Summer Chores Need to Be Different

Here’s the truth: kids are built different in summer. Their brains are in vacation mode. Their shoes are optional. Their sense of time is… nonexistent.

So a regular school‑year chore chart? Not happening.

Summer chores need to be:

  • Quick (because they have “important” sprinkler business to attend to)
  • Clear (no guessing, no negotiating, no “I didn’t knowww”)
  • Rewarding (stickers, checkmarks, screen time — whatever works in your house)
  • Flexible (because some days are pool days and some days are “we’re not leaving this house” days)

This chart does all of that without the whining, eye‑rolling, or dramatic flopping onto the couch.

What Makes This Chore Chart Actually Work

This isn’t a “scrub the baseboards” kind of chart. It’s a summer‑friendly, kid‑approved, mom‑endorsed system that focuses on small wins and shared responsibility.

Here’s what makes it magic:

  • Daily “Bare Minimum” Tasks — quick, doable, and non-negotiable
  • Choose‑Your‑Own Chores — kids pick from a list so they feel in control
  • Built‑In Rewards — simple incentives that keep motivation high
  • Visual Layout — kids can see progress (and moms can see who’s slacking)

It’s structure without the stress.

Summer Chore Ideas Kids Won’t Fight You On

Use these to fill in your chart or let your kids choose a few each day.

🌼 Easy Daily Tasks

  • Make your bed (summer version: pull the blanket up and call it good)
  • Put dishes in the sink
  • Pick up your room for 5 minutes
  • Put dirty clothes in the hamper
  • Feed the dog

🍋 Quick Wins

  • Wipe down bathroom counters
  • Sweep the porch
  • Water plants
  • Match socks
  • Restock toilet paper (a surprisingly empowering job for kids)

🌊 Bigger Kid Jobs

  • Load/unload the dishwasher
  • Take out the trash
  • Vacuum the living room
  • Help prep lunch
  • Wipe down the kitchen table

🏖️ Fun “Summer Helper” Tasks

  • Gather pool towels
  • Refill the snack basket
  • Clean out the car snack graveyard
  • Organize outdoor toys
  • Help pack the pool bag

How We Use It in Our House

We keep our chart on the fridge — front and center, where no one can pretend they “didn’t see it.”

Each morning, my child:

  1. Does her Daily 3
  2. Pick one bonus chore
  3. Earn a sticker/checkmark
  4. Cash in rewards at the end of the week

Rewards are simple: Movie night, extra screen time, picking dinner, a trip for ice cream — nothing wild, just enough to keep the momentum going.

And honestly? It works. The house stays livable, the kids feel proud, and I’m not spending my summer repeating “pick up your stuff” like a broken record.

Grab Your Free Printable

This Easy Summer Chore Chart for Kids is bright, simple, and designed for real families — the kind with wet towels, sandy floors, and snack‑loving children.

Print it, laminate it, stick it on the fridge, or slide it into a frame for dry‑erase use. Whatever fits your summer vibe.

Your summer sanity starts here.

Final Thoughts

Summer doesn’t have to be chaotic. With a simple, kid‑friendly chore chart, you can keep your home running smoothly and give your kids a sense of responsibility — without sucking the fun out of their favorite season.

Here’s to a summer that feels lighter, happier, and just a little more organized.

With coffee in one hand and a half‑checked chore chart in the other,

💛 Bethany

Grab the free printable here!

A Bright, Nostalgic Cake Full of Sweet Memories

There are some recipes that just feel like home, and this Pig Pickin’ Cake is one of mine. My late grandmother made it every spring — the kind of dessert that magically appeared on the table at Easter, family cookouts, and any gathering where folding chairs multiplied and the cornhole boards were dragged out.

It’s bright, citrusy, and wonderfully retro in that Southern church‑cookbook kind of way. And because it’s mixed in one bowl and topped with the fluffiest pineapple‑kissed icing, it’s the kind of dessert busy moms can pull together without breaking a sweat.

If you’ve never had Pig Pickin’ Cake, imagine sunshine in cake form — a soft yellow layer studded with mandarin oranges and topped with a cool, creamy frosting that tastes like a tropical cloud. It’s simple, nostalgic, and absolutely perfect for spring & summer gatherings. It’s bright, refreshing, and honestly just happy. No fancy techniques. No complicated steps. Just simple ingredients that somehow turn into something unforgettable.

Whether you’re hosting brunch, heading to a potluck, or just want a dessert that tastes like a hug from someone you miss, I hope this one brings a little sweetness to your table the way it always did to ours.

So if you’re ready to bring a little of that sunshine‑and‑nostalgia magic into your own kitchen, here’s how to make my grandmother’s Pig Pickin’ Cake.

Pig Pickin’ Cake Recipe

Ingredients:

For the Cake

  • 1 box yellow cake mix
  • 1/2 cup vegetable oil
  • 4 eggs
  • 1 (11 oz) can mandarin oranges — juice included

For the Icing

  • 8 oz whipped topping (like Cool Whip)
  • 1 large box vanilla pudding mix — dry
  • 1 cup crushed pineapple, well drained

Instructions:

Make the Cake

Disregard the instructions on the cake box. (We’re going rogue.)

Mix the cake mix, oil, eggs, and mandarin oranges — juice and all — with an electric mixer for 2 minutes.

Pour into a greased and floured 13×9 pan.

Bake at 325°F for 35–40 minutes, or until a toothpick comes out clean.

Let the cake cool completely.

Make the Icing

Mix the crushed pineapple and dry pudding mix.

Fold in the whipped topping until fluffy and dreamy.

Spread over the cooled cake.

Store in the refrigerator until serving.

Why This Cake Works for Spring/Summer

  • It’s cool and refreshing — perfect for warm days.
  • It feeds a crowd without any fuss.
  • It tastes even better the next day (hello, make‑ahead magic).
  • It’s nostalgic in the best way — the kind of dessert that makes people say, “Oh my gosh, I haven’t had this in years.”

A Little Note from My Kitchen to Yours

Every time I make this cake, I think of my grandmother — her apron, her laugh, the way she somehow made every gathering feel like the most important one. Recipes like this remind me that food is more than food. It’s connection. It’s memory. It’s love passed down in 13×9 pans.

I hope this Pig Pickin’ Cake brings a little of that love to your home this season.

If you make it, tag me — I’d love to see your spring or summer tables.

With coffee in one hand and memories of my grandmother in the other,

 💛 Bethany

Mammaw’s Pig Pickin’ Cake

A bright, citrusy spring classic made with yellow cake mix, mandarin oranges, and a fluffy pineapple‑vanilla whipped topping.
Course: Dessert
Servings: 12

Ingredients

For the Cake

  • 1 box yellow cake mix
  • 1/2 cup vegetable oil
  • 4 eggs
  • 1 11 oz can mandarin oranges — juice included

For the Icing

  • 8 oz whipped topping like Cool Whip
  • 1 large box vanilla pudding mix — dry
  • 1 cup crushed pineapple well drained

Instructions

Make the Cake

  • Disregard the instructions on the cake box.
  • Mix the cake mix, oil, eggs, and mandarin oranges — juice and all — with an electric mixer for 2 minutes.
  • Pour into a greased and floured 13×9 pan.
  • Bake at 325°F for 35–40 minutes, or until a toothpick comes out clean.
  • Let the cake cool completely.

Make the Icing

  • Mix the drained crushed pineapple and dry pudding mix.
  • Fold in the whipped topping until fluffy and dreamy.
  • Spread over the cooled cake.
  • Store in the refrigerator until serving.

The Last Month of School: Caffeine, Chaos, and Mom Survival Mode

The last month of school hits different. It’s like the universe took December’s energy, removed the twinkle lights and hot cocoa, and replaced them with field days, testing week, end‑of‑year projects, sports tournaments, class parties, and approximately 47 “quick reminders” from the school that are never actually quick.

By May, every mom I know is running on caffeine, car snacks, and the sheer willpower of someone who refuses to buy one more spirit‑day shirt.

Let’s break down why this month turns even the most organized moms into slightly feral versions of themselves.

1. The Calendar Has Become a Threat

May’s calendar isn’t a calendar — it’s a color‑coded cry for help.

There’s:

  • Field Day
  • Awards Day
  • Testing Week
  • Concerts
  • Dances
  • Class parties
  • Teacher gifts
  • Sports banquets
  • “Oh, and can you send in 24 individually wrapped snacks by tomorrow?”

Every day feels like a new level of a video game you didn’t sign up to play.

2. Kids Are Basically Done… But School Isn’t

Academically? They’ve checked out. Emotionally? They’re on summer break. Physically? They’re still being dropped off every morning like tiny, exhausted employees.

The last month of school is a delicate dance of:

  • “Yes, you still have to go.”
  • “No, you cannot wear your swimsuit under your clothes.”
  • “Please just turn in something so you don’t tank your grade in the final two weeks.”

3. The Backpack Situation Is… Concerning

By May, backpacks become black holes of:

  • Crushed Goldfish
  • Mystery papers from February
  • A library book you swear you returned
  • A hoodie your child hasn’t worn since winter
  • A smell you cannot identify and will not investigate

The end‑of‑year backpack clean‑out deserves its own holiday.

4. Teacher Gifts, But Make It Meaningful

We want to be thoughtful. We intend to be thoughtful. But May has us Googling “teacher gifts Prime shipping” at 11:47 PM.

Teachers deserve the world — and also a nap, a gift card, and a handwritten note that says “Thank you for loving my child even when they forgot their homework for the third time this week.”

5. The Emotional Rollercoaster Is Real

It’s wild how one month can make you feel:

  • Proud
  • Overwhelmed
  • Sentimental
  • Exhausted
  • Excited for summer
  • Terrified for summer
  • All within the same 24 hours

The last day of school hits you right in the mom‑heart. One minute you’re cheering, the next you’re crying into your iced coffee because your baby is suddenly a whole grade older.

6. We’re All Just Trying to Make It to Summer

At the end of the day, May is a marathon — and moms are the ones carrying the snacks, the sunscreen, the permission slips, and the emotional load.

If you’re running on caffeine and chaos right now, you’re not alone. You’re doing an incredible job, even if your car looks like a mobile concession stand and you forgot it was Pajama Day… again.

Summer is coming. Hang in there, mama.

And since the last day of school is coming in hot, I made something to make at least one part of May feel easy. Grab your free editable Last‑Day‑of‑School sign below and check one thing off that overflowing list.

Grab Your Free Editable Last‑Day‑of‑School Sign! Whether you’re a pastel‑loving mom or raising a bold tween, these printable signs are ready for your end‑of‑year photos. Edit directly in Canva or print the PDF for a quick photo‑op moment. Click below to download your favorite version and make those last‑day memories shine!

🎨 Edit in Canva (pastel)

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📄 Download Printable PDF (pastel)

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With coffee in one hand and a color-coded calendar in the other,

💛 Bethany

DIY Patriotic Porch Decor: Easy Red, White & Blue Ideas to Brighten Your Home

If your porch is begging for a little red‑white‑and‑blue moment, you’re in the right place. Memorial Day kicks off the season of backyard BBQs, neighborhood hangs, and kids running around with popsicles that will drip all over your outdoor cushions. So why not give your porch a festive glow‑up that feels fun, welcoming, and totally doable for busy moms?

These DIY patriotic porch ideas are simple, affordable, and full of that classic Americana charm — think wreaths, planters, flags, bows, and all the trend‑driven crafting magic your heart can handle.

Let’s turn your porch into the cutest house on the block.

⭐️ DIY Patriotic Porch Wreath (Dollar Tree Friendly!)

Nothing says “summer is here!” like a big, bold wreath on the front door.

What You’ll Need:

  • Grapevine or wire wreath form
  • Red, white, and blue ribbon
  • Mini American flags
  • Faux florals (white hydrangeas, red berries, blue peonies)
  • Hot glue + floral wire

How to Make It:

  1. Wrap your ribbon around the wreath form, leaving some grapevine peeking through for that rustic‑chic vibe.
  2. Cluster your florals on one side — asymmetrical is the trend and we’re leaning in.
  3. Tuck in a couple of mini flags for that patriotic pop.
  4. Add a big bow at the bottom or top (your porch, your rules).

Hang it up and boom — instant curb‑appeal upgrade.

🌿 Red, White & Blue Porch Planters

This is the easiest way to make your porch look intentional without spending hours crafting.

Plant Ideas:

  • Red: Geraniums, begonias, petunias
  • White: Alyssum, vinca, dusty miller
  • Blue: Lobelia, salvia, blue petunias

How to Style Them:

  • Use galvanized buckets, white ceramic pots, or navy planters for a cohesive look.
  • Add small American flags or star‑shaped plant stakes.
  • Cluster planters in groups of three for that designer‑styled feel.

Bonus: These last all summer, so you’re decorating once and enjoying for months.

🎀 Patriotic Bows for Railings, Lanterns & Mailboxes

If you want big impact with minimal effort, bows are your new best friend.

Where to Put Them:

  • Porch railings
  • Outdoor lanterns
  • Mailbox
  • Porch columns
  • Hanging baskets

How to Make Them Last:

Use wired ribbon so they hold their shape, and add a quick spritz of Scotchgard if they’ll be in direct sun or rain.

Mini Flag Displays (Cute, Not Cheesy)

Flags don’t have to feel overdone — it’s all about styling.

Ideas:

  • Fill a mason jar with sand and stick in 5–7 mini flags for a simple centerpiece.
  • Line your porch steps with small flags tucked into planters.
  • Add a single large flag to your porch column for a classic look.

Keep it intentional, not cluttered.

DIY Patriotic Porch Sign

A vertical “USA,” “WELCOME,” or “HOME” sign is a Pinterest favorite — and for good reason.

How to Make It:

  1. Grab a wooden board from Lowe’s or use scrap wood.
  2. Paint it navy or white.
  3. Add stenciled letters in red or white.
  4. Distress the edges for that farmhouse‑summer charm.

Lean it next to your door or prop it by your planters.

🔥 Finishing Touches That Pull It All Together

These tiny details make your porch look styled — not thrown together.

  • A navy outdoor rug
  • Red or striped throw pillows
  • A white rocking chair or bench
  • Star‑shaped lanterns
  • Battery‑powered candles for nighttime glow

Your porch will look like you hired a decorator… but really you just had 20 minutes and a glue gun.

💬 Final Thoughts

Memorial Day is the unofficial start of summer, and decorating your porch is such a fun way to welcome the season. Whether you go full‑on patriotic or keep it simple with a few pops of red, white, and blue, these DIY ideas make your home feel festive, warm, and ready for all the memories ahead.

With coffee in one hand and red‑white‑and‑blue vibes in the other,

💛Bethany

Creamy Garlic Parmesan Chicken and Orzo

Spring always feels like a fresh start — longer days, lighter meals, and a calendar that somehow fills up faster than the pollen settles on the porch. Between sports practices, school events, and the general chaos of family life, weeknight dinners need to be quick, simple, and something everyone will actually eat.

Because sometimes dinner needs to taste like you tried… even when you absolutely did not.

Enter: this Creamy Garlic Parmesan Chicken & Orzo. A one‑pan wonder that makes you look like you have your life together, even if you were two seconds away from ordering pizza. It’s cozy, creamy, and kid‑approved for those nights when you just want simple, comforting flavor.

And the best part? It’s done in about 25 minutes. That’s less time than it takes to convince your child that yes, they do need to shower.

Why You’ll Love This Recipe

  • One pan = fewer dishes (praise be)
  • Creamy without being heavy
  • Kid‑friendly flavors that don’t require negotiations
  • Ready in under 30 minutes
  • Perfect for those “I need dinner fast but also want it to taste good” nights

Ingredients

  • 1 lb chicken breasts or thighs, cut into bite‑size pieces
  • 1 tablespoon olive oil
  • 3 cloves garlic, minced
  • 1 cup dry orzo
  • 2 cups chicken broth
  • ½ cup heavy cream (or half‑and‑half)
  • ½ cup grated parmesan
  • 1 cup fresh spinach (optional)
  • 1 cup frozen peas (optional but very spring‑y)
  • ½ teaspoon Italian seasoning
  • Salt & pepper to taste
  • Fresh parsley for topping

Instructions

  1. Heat olive oil in a large skillet and cook chicken until golden and cooked through.
  2. Add garlic and sauté for 30 seconds until fragrant (aka: until the kitchen smells like you’re doing something impressive).
  3. Stir in the dry orzo and toast for 1 minute.
  4. Pour in chicken broth and bring to a simmer.
  5. Cover and cook 8–10 minutes, stirring occasionally, until the orzo is tender.
  6. Add cream, parmesan, Italian seasoning, and peas/spinach if using.
  7. Simmer 2–3 minutes until creamy and dreamy.
  8. Season with salt and pepper and top with parsley

Make It Your Own

  • Swap chicken for shrimp or sausage
  • Add mushrooms or asparagus for extra veggies
  • Use veggie broth and skip the chicken for a meatless version
  • Stir in sun‑dried tomatoes for a flavor boost

Serving Ideas

  • Add a simple side salad
  • Serve with garlic bread (because carbs deserve friends)
  • Pair with roasted broccoli or green beans

Final Thoughts

This is the kind of dinner that earns you compliments like, “Wow, this is really good,” which we all know is mom‑code for you’ve outdone yourself and should absolutely make this again. It’s creamy, comforting, and perfect for those early spring nights when you want something warm but not heavy.

With a coffee in one hand and a one-pan wonder in the other,

💛 Bethany

Creamy Garlic Parmesean Chicken and Orzo

A one‑pan creamy garlic parmesan chicken and orzo that comes together in about 25 minutes.
Prep Time10 minutes
Cook Time20 minutes
Course: Main Course
Keyword: chicken and orzo recipe, creamy chicken orzo, easy weeknight meal, garlic parmesan orzo, one-pan chicken dinner
Servings: 4

Ingredients

  • 1 lb chicken breasts or thighs cut into bite‑size pieces
  • 1 tablespoon olive oil
  • 3 cloves garlic minced
  • 1 cup dry orzo
  • 2 cups chicken broth
  • ½ cup heavy cream or half‑and‑half
  • ½ cup grated parmesan
  • 1 cup fresh spinach optional
  • 1 cup frozen peas optional
  • ½ teaspoon Italian seasoning
  • Salt & pepper to taste
  • Fresh parsley for topping

Instructions

  • Heat olive oil in a large skillet and cook chicken until golden and cooked through.
  • Add garlic and sauté for 30 seconds until fragrant
  • Stir in the dry orzo and toast for 1 minute.
  • Pour in chicken broth and bring to a simmer.
  • Cover and cook 8–10 minutes, stirring occasionally, until the orzo is tender.
  • Add cream, parmesan, Italian seasoning, and peas/spinach if using.
  • Simmer 2–3 minutes until creamy and dreamy.
  • Season with salt and pepper and top with parsley.