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The List Lounge
Pull up a seat, grab your coffee (or reheated tea—we don’t judge), and settle into the List Lounge: your comfy corner for all things practical, playful, and perfectly mom-ish. From lunchbox lifesavers to stocking stuffer surprises, this is where the magic of a well-timed list meets the chaos of real life. Whether you’re planning, prepping, or just procrastinating, these guides are here to help you feel a little more ready—and a lot more seen.

The Ultimate Holiday Bucket List

Cozy, Cheeky, and Totally Doable

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Let’s be honest—December is magical, messy, and mildly exhausting. Between the glitter explosions, gift wrap battles, and emotional whiplash of tween mood swings, it’s easy to forget the fun. So this year, I made a bucket list that’s less about perfection and more about presence. It’s filled with cozy moments, silly traditions, and just enough sass to keep things real.

Whether you’re a mom running on peppermint bark or a tween looking for something to do between cookie batches, this list is for you.

25 Cozy, Cheeky Things to Do This Holiday Season

  1. Make hot cocoa with too many marshmallows
  2. Dance to Mariah Carey like no one’s watching (except the dog)
  3. Watch a holiday movie in pajamas—bonus points for fuzzy socks
  4. Bake cookies and eat at least one before they cool
  5. Build a blanket fort and declare it a “No Drama Zone”
  6. Write a letter to Santa (or your future self)
  7. Create DIY ornaments with glitter, glue, and questionable judgment
  8. Hide from relatives for five minutes of peace
  9. Read a holiday book by twinkle light
  10. Make a playlist of your favorite festive songs
  11. Go on a neighborhood light tour—thermos of cocoa required
  12. Send a card to someone who wouldn’t expect it
  13. Wrap a gift with way too much tape
  14. Make a gingerbread house and eat half the roof
  15. Leave a surprise treat for a neighbor or delivery driver
  16. Wear an ugly sweater proudly
  17. Host a mini dance party in the kitchen
  18. Write down three things you’re grateful for this season
  19. Take a silly family photo—props encouraged
  20. Create a holiday time capsule with your tween
  21. Try a new holiday recipe (or just remix an old one)
  22. Make snowflakes out of coffee filters
  23. Watch The Grinch and root for him a little
  24. Give yourself permission to skip something
  25. End the month with a toast to surviving the glitter storm

Free Printable

Want to hang this list on your fridge, tuck it in your planner, or hand it to your kids with a glitter pen? I’ve turned it into a printable you can download and check off as you go. Because nothing says “holiday spirit” like crossing things off a list while sipping cocoa in stretchy pants.

Let’s Chat

What’s on your holiday bucket list this year? Drop your favorite traditions, cozy rituals, or “hide from relatives” strategies in the comments—I’d love to hear how you make the season your own.

With coffee in one hand and a half-decorated cookie in the other,

💛 Bethany

10 Easy Leftover Turkey Ideas That Skip the Soup

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Let’s be honest: after Thanksgiving, the fridge becomes a turkey shrine. And while soup is the classic go-to, sometimes you just want something that doesn’t require a stockpot or a spoon. So if your family is giving you the side-eye at the mention of “turkey stew,” it’s time to shake things up.

Here are some delicious, unexpected ways to give that leftover bird a second life—no soup ladle required.

1. Turkey Street Tacos

From feast to fiesta in 15 minutes

Shred turkey and sauté with cumin, chili powder, and garlic. Serve in warm corn tortillas with avocado, pickled onions, and a drizzle of chipotle mayo.

2. Cranberry-Turkey Salad

The salad that makes leftovers feel fancy

Toss chopped turkey with mixed greens, goat cheese, pecans, and dried cranberries. Add a balsamic vinaigrette and call it a glow-up.

3. Turkey Brie Grilled Cheese

Comfort food with a holiday twist

Layer turkey, brie, and a smear of cranberry sauce between sourdough slices. Grill until golden and melty.

4. Turkey Enchilada Casserole

Leftovers gone loco

Roll shredded turkey in corn tortillas with enchilada sauce and cheese. Bake until bubbly. Top with cilantro and sour cream.

5. Turkey Hash

Breakfast that means business

Sauté diced turkey with potatoes, onions, and bell peppers. Top with a fried egg and hot sauce.

6. Turkey Alfredo Pasta

Weeknight elegance in one pan

Toss chopped turkey with fettuccine and creamy Alfredo sauce. Add peas or spinach for color and crunch.

7. Turkey Potstickers

Leftovers meet takeout vibes

Mix turkey with scallions, ginger, and soy sauce. Fill wonton wrappers, pan-fry, and serve with dipping sauce.

8. Thanksgiving Panini

The sandwich that tastes like a holiday encore

Layer turkey, stuffing, cranberry sauce, and a smear of gravy between ciabatta. Press until crispy.

9. Turkey Flatbread Pizza

Pizza night, post-poultry edition

Top naan or flatbread with BBQ sauce, turkey, red onion, and mozzarella. Bake and finish with fresh cilantro.

10. Turkey Lettuce Wraps

Light, crunchy, and totally addictive

Sauté turkey with hoisin sauce, garlic, and water chestnuts. Serve in butter lettuce cups with shredded carrots.

Final Thoughts

Leftover turkey doesn’t have to be a culinary snooze-fest. With a little creativity (and maybe a splash of cranberry sauce), you can turn post-holiday scraps into meals your family actually looks forward to. So go ahead—ditch the soup, embrace the remix, and tag me @ohwait.imamom on Instagram with your creations.

Before You Go… If your fridge is full, your brain is fried, and your to-do list is giving side-eye—you’re not alone. Post-Thanksgiving is the perfect time to hit pause, clear the clutter (mental and otherwise), and reset before December rolls in with its glitter and chaos.

👉 Check out my November Reset Post for simple, soul-soothing ways to refresh your space, your schedule, and your sanity. You’ve got this, mama—and I’ve got your back.

With coffee in one hand and a turkey taco in the other,

💛 Bethany

November Reset: Simple Ways to Recharge Before the Holidays

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Oh hey, November. You sneaky little month. One minute it’s Halloween candy wrappers in the couch cushions, and the next it’s full-blown holiday prep mode with glitter in places glitter should never be. But before we dive headfirst into wrapping paper, cookie swaps, and the annual “where did I hide the elf?” panic, let’s hit pause and do a November reset.

Because oh wait, I’m a mom and if I don’t reset now, I’ll be running on peppermint fumes by mid-December.

Feeling the pre-holiday burnout creeping in? Your go-to November Reset Checklist to help you recharge before the glitter hits the fan is waiting below—because let’s be honest, November doesn’t ease us in gently.

Here are my favorite simple, sanity-saving ways to recharge this November:

 1. Mini Morning Moments

Forget the 5 a.m. miracle routine. I’m talking five minutes of quiet before the chaos. Sip your coffee slowly. Stretch. Stare out the window like a moody poet. It counts.

2. Candle + Journal Combo

Light a fall-scented candle (bonus points for cinnamon or apple), grab a notebook, and brain-dump your thoughts. No rules. Just write. It’s like therapy, but cheaper and smells better.

3. Declutter One Tiny Thing

Not the whole house. Just one drawer. (Unless it’s the junk drawer, then light a candle and say a prayer.) Or tackle the corner of the counter that collects mail, your child’s latest toy, and 17 pens that don’t work.

4. Eat Something That Didn’t Come in a Wrapper

I love a snack-sized candy bar as much as the next exhausted parent, but November is a great time to sneak in a few whole foods. Apples, roasted veggies, soup that didn’t come from a can. Your body will thank you. Eventually.

5. Digital Detox Lite

Try one screen-free hour a day. No scrolling, no doom-clicking, no comparing your life to someone’s curated fall picnic reel. Just you, your thoughts, and maybe a fall or winter craft.

6. Move Your Body (Gently)

No need to train for a marathon. A walk, a dance party in the living room, or stretching while watching your favorite show totally counts. Movement = mood magic. And if you’re like me and enjoy indoor walking, Get Fit with Rick is a total game-changer—fun, energizing, and perfect for squeezing in steps between snack breaks and glitter explosions.

7. Create a Cozy Corner

Designate a space that’s just for you. A chair with a blanket, a candle, and a book. When you sit there, it’s “do not disturb unless someone’s bleeding” time.

8. Make a Holiday Game Plan

Not a full spreadsheet. Just jot down what you actually want to do this season. Say yes to joy, no to guilt, and maybe to matching pajamas.

Final Thoughts:

November isn’t just the calm before the holiday storm. It’s your chance to breathe, reset, and remember that you’re a human, not a holiday machine. So light the candle, take the walk, eat the soup, and give yourself permission to slow down.

Because come December, you’ll be glad you did.

Feeling inspired but slightly overwhelmed? Same. That’s why I made a simple November Reset Checklist because moms don’t need more chaos, we need clarity (and maybe an apple scented candle). Download the printable version and stick it to your fridge, planner, or forehead—whatever works.

With coffee in one hand and a to-do list I’m pretending doesn’t exist in the other,

💛Bethany

Ultimate Tween Stocking Stuffer Guide: 40 Ideas They’ll Actually Love

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Let’s be real—tween stocking stuffers are a delicate art. You want fun, not junk. Silly, but not babyish. Cool enough to earn a nod from your tween, but still budget-friendly enough to leave room for peppermint bark and wrapping paper therapy.

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So I’ve rounded up a list of stocking stuffer ideas that hit the sweet spot: playful, practical, and just cheeky enough to survive the tween eye-roll test.

40 Tween-Approved Stocking Stuffers

Creative & Crafty

For the tween who’s always making something—besides a mess.

  • Mini squishies or stress balls – Because finals week is hard, even in sixth grade.
  • Tiny journals or doodle pads – For secrets, sketches, or sibling roast lists.
  • Mini puzzles or brain teasers – Great for car rides or avoiding chores.
  • Mini crochet kit or bracelet loom – Crafty, trendy, and screen-free.
  • Inspirational quote cards – Tween sass meets daily affirmations.
  • Mini calendar or planner stickers – For the tween who’s suddenly “so busy.”
  • Holiday Mad Libs or Would You Rather books – Laughter guaranteed, groans optional.
  • Mini slime tubs – Just enough to be fun, not enough to ruin the carpet.

Glam & Glow

For the budding beauty guru who’s experimenting with sparkle.

  • Trendy makeup minis – Think clear gloss, shimmer sticks, or tinted lip oils from brands like e.l.f., Rare Beauty, or Petite ‘n Pretty—perfect for the tween who’s experimenting with glam but still keeping it age-appropriate.
  • Lip balm in fun flavors – Watermelon, bubble gum, or “mystery flavor” for the brave.
  • Mini nail polish sets – Glitter optional, sass required.
  • Kid-friendly skincare minis – For the tween who’s “getting into skincare” and wants something gentle, fun, and totally Instagram-worthy. Look for brands like: Bubble – Tween-loved and dermatologist-approved, with cute packaging and gentle formulas. Versed – Clean, minimal, and perfect for tweens who want to feel grown-up without the harsh stuff. CeraVe – A classic for a reason—gentle, effective, and tween-safe.
  • Sol de Janeiro mini mist or lotion – For the tween who wants to smell like a tropical vacation and feel fancy at the bus stop.
  • Makeup sponge or brush set – Especially in pastel or glitter finishes.
  • Kitsch satin pillowcase – For frizz-free hair and a little luxe.
  • Star pimple patches – Breakouts deserve a little sparkle and a whole lot of star power while they heal in style.
  • Spa headband & wristband set – Runaway water shouldn’t interrupt her self-care glow-up.

Techie & Trendy

For the tween who lives for selfies, TikToks, and aesthetic upgrades.

  • Phone grip or pop socket – Cute, functional, and selfie-friendly.
  • Selfie ring light for the social media enthusiast – Let them glow up their grid.
  • Bluetooth shower speaker – For singing like no one’s listening (except the dog).
  • Galaxy light – For turning their room into a vibe zone.
  • Phone charm or beaded strap – Cute, customizable, and totally TikTok-worthy.
  • Phone projector – Turn any wall into a movie night.
  • Tiny tech wipes or screen cleaners – Because fingerprints are forever.
  • Zipstring – Every fidget deserves a glow-up, and this one zips, flips, and flies straight into fun.

Fashion & Accessories

For the tween who treats their Stanley like a sidekick and their scrunchies like currency.

  • Soft pajama sets – Because nothing says “holiday mood” like stretchy pants and fuzzy socks. Walmart and Target have some seriously snuggly options—perfect for movie marathons, cocoa sipping, and dramatic tween exits to their room.
  • Fidget rings or bracelets – Quiet enough for class, cool enough for TikTok.
  • Charm bracelets or stackable rings – Think Pura Vida, Little Words Project, or Etsy finds.
  • Claw clips or scrunchies in fun colors – For messy buns, half-up styles, and “I’m too cool to try” looks.
  • Stanley accessories – From pastel straw toppers to charm clips and boot sleeves, these add-ons turn a basic tumbler into a full-blown personality. Perfect for the tween who treats their Stanley like a sidekick.
  • Nameplate or initial necklace – Personalized and on-trend.
  • Unbrush – Even better than a wet brush.
  • Shoe charms – Every step deserves a sprinkle of personality, a pop of flair, and a reminder that even footwear can slay.

Fun & Functional

For the tween who wants cool stuff that’s also kinda useful (or just delicious).

  • Scented gel pens – Bonus points if they smell like cupcakes or bubblegum.
  • Clip-on book light for the book worm – Because “just one more chapter” needs backup.
  • Candy with a twist – Sour spray, chocolate coal, or marshmallow snowmen.
  • Mini card games – Uno, Taco Cat Goat Cheese Pizza, or something new.
  • Fairy lights for their bedroom – Because every vibe shift deserves a soft glow and a little sparkle.
  • Gift card to their favorite spot – Starbucks, Target, or Sephora = instant joy.
  • Hand sanitizer case – Because sticky fingers and snack-time science experiments deserve a stylish sidekick that keeps the germs at bay.

Let’s Chat

If you’ve got a tween-approved stocking stuffer that earned legendary status in your house, drop it in the comments—I’m always collecting ideas like they’re squishies and sticker packs. Sharing is caring (and helps other moms avoid the dreaded stocking flop).

That’s a Wrap (Literally)

Whether you’re stuffing stockings at midnight with tinsel in your hair or handing them off with a wink and a peppermint mocha, remember: it’s not about the price tag—it’s about the smile, the giggle, and the “OMG this is actually cool” moment. Tweens are tricky, but with a little sass, sparkle, and soft pajamas from Target, you’ve got this.

Now go forth and stuff those stockings like the festive, fabulous mom you are. Stretchy pants optional. Peppermint bark encouraged.

Need more holiday inspo? My cheeky holiday bucket list has all the merry mischief you need.

With coffee in one hand and a stocking in the other,

💛 Bethany

How to Make the Most of Shorter Days with Indoor Activities

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Frankly, when the days get shorter, so does our patience. The sun sets at 4:30, the kids are bouncing off the walls, and suddenly your living room feels like a pressure cooker of boredom and snack crumbs. But fear not—shorter days don’t have to mean longer hours of screen time and seasonal sanity slippage.

Here’s how we’re turning early sunsets into cozy, creative wins with indoor activities that actually feel fun (and sometimes even productive).

1. Bake Something That Smells Like Fall

Whether it’s apple muffins, cinnamon rolls, or boxed brownies with a sprinkle of denial, baking is a sensory experience that warms the soul. Bonus: it makes your house smell like you have your life together.

2. Host a Craft-a-Thon

Pull out the glue sticks, pinecones, and glitter (if you dare). Try making pinecone owls, cinnamon stick candles, or DIY garlands. It’s messy, magical, and gives everyone a reason to sit still for 20 minutes. Need inspiration? Check out my 10 simple fall craft ideas here.

3. Board Game Bonanza

Dust off the classics or try something new. Whether it’s Uno, Clue, or a chaotic round of charades, game night brings laughter, connection, and a break from doomscrolling.

4. Create a Cozy Reading Nook

Blanket fort + twinkle lights + a stack of books = instant escape. Let everyone pick a book and read together or solo. Bonus points if you add hot cocoa and pretend you’re in a cabin in the woods.

5. Mini Mindfulness Moments

Try a short guided meditation, breathing exercise, or just sit in silence for five minutes. It’s like hitting the reset button, especially when the house feels like a circus. Apps like Headspace or Insight Timer make it easy to sneak in a moment of calm—even when the dog’s barking and someone’s yelling about missing socks.

6. Kitchen Science Experiments

Make slime, grow crystals, or sprout an avocado pit. It’s educational, entertaining, and slightly chaotic—in the best way.

7. Themed Movie Nights

Pick a theme (spooky, cozy, animated classics), make snacks to match, and let everyone vote on the movie. Pajamas required. Arguments over popcorn toppings optional.

8. Declutter One Tiny Thing

Not the whole house—just one drawer, one shelf, or one corner of the counter that collects mystery crumbs and expired coupons. Small wins = big peace.

9. Start a Journaling Challenge

Shorter days are perfect for reflection. Try daily prompts like “What made me smile today?” or “What am I grateful for?” It’s low-pressure and surprisingly therapeutic. If you’re into cozy journaling vibes, my 30-day challenge list is waiting for you here!

10. Dance Party in the Kitchen

When all else fails, blast your favorite playlist and dance like no one’s watching (except the dog, who’s judging you). It’s the ultimate mood booster.

Final Thoughts

Shorter days don’t have to mean shorter tempers. With a little creativity and a lot of snacks, you can turn indoor time into something cozy, connected, and even fun. So light a candle, grab a blanket, and embrace the season—glitter, crumbs, and all.

With a coffee in one hand and a reminder that this season won’t last forever in the other.

💛 Bethany

Easy DIY Halloween Costumes from Your Closet

Fast, funny, and fabulously frazzled costume ideas for the whole crew.

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Every October I make a solemn vow: “This year, I’m not dressing up.” I mean it. I’m firm. I’m resolute. And then, like clockwork, my daughter hits me with the puppy eyes and a dramatic, “But it won’t be fun without you!” Suddenly I’m hot-gluing googly eyes to a bathrobe and calling myself a sleep-deprived monster.

So if Halloween snuck up on you like a ghost in a fog machine, and now you’re staring into your closet wondering if “tired parent” counts as a costume. Don’t panic. You don’t need a trip to the costume store or a sewing machine to pull off something clever, cute, or creepy. These easy DIY Halloween costumes are fast, funny, and totally doable with stuff you already own.

1. Fortune Teller

What you need: Flowing scarf, chunky jewelry, eyeliner for dramatic eyes Bonus: Carry a crystal ball (or snow globe) and speak only in mysterious riddles.

2. Cat Burglar

What you need: All black outfit, black beanie, toy cat or stuffed animal Bonus: Add a loot bag labeled “Meow Mix” and sneak around dramatically.

3. Error 404 Costume Not Found

What you need: White T-shirt + marker Instructions: Write “Error 404: Costume Not Found” across the front and/or back. Bonus: Carry a fake tech support badge and offer to reboot people.

4. Bubble Bath

What you need: White balloons, shower cap, loofah Bonus: Tape rubber duckies to your shirt and walk around humming spa music.

5. Secret Agent

What you need: Black clothes, sunglasses, earpiece (or a phone cord), clipboard or fake ID badge Bonus: Speak in code and pretend you’re on a top-secret candy mission.

6. Miss Universe

What you need: Dress + cut-out paper planets or stars taped on Bonus: Add a sash and tiara for intergalactic glam.

7. Life Gives You Lemons

What you need: A shirt labeled “LIFE” (tape or iron-on letters), a basket or bag of lemons Bonus: Hand lemons to people with dramatic flair and say, “You know what to do.”

8. Wednesday Addams

What you need: Black dress, white collar (or white shirt layered underneath), braided pigtails Bonus: Carry a headless doll and perfect your deadpan glare. Smiling is strictly forbidden.

9. Fork in the Road

What you need: Black shirt or dress with white or yellow dashed lines (like a road) made out of tape, plastic fork taped to the middle Bonus: Add a cardboard road sign.

10. Cactus

What you need: Green shirt, white pipe cleaners or straws for spikes Bonus: Add a flower headband and stand very still in corners.

Tips for Pulling It Off

  • Own it. Confidence sells even the simplest costume.
  • Accessorize. A prop or punny sign can elevate your look instantly.
  • Group up. Coordinate with friends for a themed ensemble—like emojis, cereal boxes, or characters from a show.

Bonus Round: Even More Last-Minute Costume Wins for the Kids

Still searching for that perfect mix of funny, spooky, and low effort? These 5 ideas are crowd-pleasers and kid-approved:

Little Zombie

Supplies: Old clothes (ripped and frayed), face paint or eyeliner for dark circles, optional fake blood Why it works: It’s creepy, classic, and gives your kid full permission to shuffle around moaning “braaains.” Bonus: Add green food coloring to hair gel for a ghoulish glow-up.

Laundry Monster

Supplies: Laundry basket (cut out bottom), safety-pinned socks, dryer sheets, and a grumpy expression Why it works: It’s hilarious, relatable, and perfect for the kid who loves chaos. Bonus: Add a sign that says “Missing Sock HQ” and let them toss socks at people.

80s Rock Star

Supplies: Neon clothes, teased hair or wig, toy microphone, sunglasses Why it works: It’s loud, fun, and lets your kid channel their inner diva. Bonus: Add a cardboard “Backstage Pass” and encourage dramatic poses all night.

Smarty Pants

Supplies: Jeans + glue-on Smarties candies Why it works: Minimal supplies, maximum giggles. Plus, Smarties double as a snack if the party runs long. Bonus: Add glasses and carry a “pop quiz” card. Punny and perfect for school parties.

Bubble Tea

Supplies: Clear trash bag filled with black balloons (boba) and a pool noodle straw Why it works: Balloons and a trash bag? Genius. It’s a costume and a conversation starter. Bonus: Label it with their favorite flavor—matcha, taro, or spooky spice.

Before you hit the streets, peek at these safety tips to keep your little monsters safe.

Final Thoughts

Halloween is about creativity, not perfection. Whether you’re trick-or-treating, party-hopping, or just handing out candy in style, these DIY ideas prove you don’t need a full moon or a full budget to shine. So grab that glue gun, raid your closet, and let your imagination run wild because spooky season waits for no one.

Need more spooky fun? Try my 13-day countdown filled with dares, crafts, and snacks.

With coffee in one hand and a costume crisis in the other,

💛Bethany